Wrong--that self-confident young person is still in there--yes, you took a couple of hard hits in the relationship department. But you can recover from this. I've done a lot of things I'm not proud of for the sake of pleasing someone who didn't deserve it. I own that. I did it. But I don't feel worthless because of it. I did at first, but I got past that. I know more now. I'm wiser. You are, too.