I found this forum within a month of my deceased boyfriend's dance with the devil.
It helped me handle what was happening.
I helped me perhaps with some decisions ... but this forum and any other means will never stop or alter the behavior and decisions of an addict.
It's a difficult thing to accept. I used to think the same thing in the beginning but I became aware that coming here, reading and sharing was for me. And maybe being able to help someone else here.