I pretty much understand where all are coming from. As a SR newcomer, I seldom ventured into the Newcomers Forum. Not for months, in fact, because it *did* seem too focused on relapse. On the other hand, I undoubtedly missed out on some wisdom from those in recovery and inspiration, too.
What I did do, and encourage you if you haven't, is join my SR month class. (I'm admittedly biased, but I think mine is the best!) It helped to be around others at the same point in sobriety, jointly build accountability and extend and receive support.