HI.
Alcoholism is a situation where the individual must do the living sober part for themselves.
No one else can get anyone drunk or sober, it’s work with changes needed to be made.
Firs for most of us is being honest with our self about our drinking AND accepting the fact we cannot drink in safety one day at a time in a row.
Reading a lot of posts on the forums is a great help and I found face to face meetings has resulted in many years of recovery for many.
BE WELL