For me it took time, being comfortable in my own skin didn't happen overnight, bit I knew that if I continued with Sobreity then my life may take a turn for the better.
Learning who I even was in Sobriety was the first step, and then I grew to appreciate that, accept both my strengths and weaknesses rather than escaping through alcohol which I had done for so long.
My life hadn't much in it when I got Sober, it took time to fill it with things, new activities, new friends, new projects, and through that I became more content with myself.
Rome wasn't built in a day is the phrase, but in time we can look back and see progress!!