Ohhhh yea.
Mine sucks too cuz my ex-ABF have talked recently and I see the change in him... how much better he is doing (not that we will/are together)
But in talking to my daughter a little about it... she hates him and goes to extreems to point out things that she thinks shows he has not changed at all. I cant convience her, and I should not have to but the pull between the two sometimes really hurts.
Hang in there!