Originally Posted by
mecanix 
If me and mex-m8 split up good luck to him, we had fun , my life would still be glorious, fun and sober i hope.
Exactly my point. Like it or not, gay people don't make good long-term relationship material. If they did, they wouldn't think, "if we split up, no big deal, and good luck to him".
How can I possibly deeply invest into a relationship with people of this mindset? I can't. That's the thing with gay people. It's kinda, "let's hang out as long as it's fun, but when the going gets tough or boring for me, I'm outta here", type of thing. That's not something I can invest my soul into. Did twice before, several years each, and got deeply hurt both times.