The internet is difficult as words without vocal tones/facial expressions can be misinterpreted. I read the original post as a message to encourage others and feeling sad for all struggling. Likewise I read Aiko's message as backing up the original post, not criticising it. I've upset people in the past on forums and on reading their comments gone back and re-read what I've written have seen how it can be taken to in fact say the opposite of what I've meant. I really think that's what's happened here. Please let's not fall out of interpretation issues. We all need each other xx