I waited to respond to this because it made me so mad. Something like this was one of the reasons I ended a relationship ten years ago. Daughter came home to mom's house around noon. Already loaded. It's sunny and pushing 90 outside. Leaves two one yr olds strapped into suv with car running and a/c on. Proceeds to pass out inside house.
I threw a fit. The punch line is this. Are you ready for it?
I was told I didn't have kids and I wasn't qualified to give advice on raising children.
Sad but true. I was basically told to mind my own business. I'm not making this up.
I tried for years to have children - not in the cards for me. And I have to witness things every day that turn my stomach.