Originally Posted by ArtFriend

I had to throw out my old toolbox and start a new one with shiny new tools. I was using a screwdriver (pun intended) when I needed a hammer. Didn't have a hammer...but now I do. Having the wrong tools for the job is worse than having no tools because not only do you not fix the problem, you can make it worse. My current set of tools is SR, mindfulness, staying as busy as possible, exercising, reading, and a big project of changing my life over all. That one needs a back hoe, sledge hammer and chainsaw.