I find it interesting sturner that out of all the responses....many of whom gave wonderful advice......that you choose only ONE to reply to? Whether you meant to sound annoyed and combative when you posted it read like that to me. As if you had come back from attending a meeting and needed to let off steam. Maybe it was the 'Preachy types' heading? But I feel like this community did very well to ignore your attitude and post supportively and with genuine respect. And I'm talking about regardless of recovery method they aspire to.
Perhaps, instead of 'calling out' someone who took the time to respond to you....you should show your appreciation for ALL who took the time to post and gave you awesome advice?
SR...and especially newcomers has always been a very very supportive group. Not a place to blow off steam or get into a battle because you feel feisty today.