She hasn't touched the alcohol we have in the house since I first confronted her about this, thus adding to my complex of having possibly accused her of a problem she doesn't have. Bottles of gin, vodka, and scotch, all untouched since last Friday. But all the signs are there, otherwise. She CAN stop drinking, she just apparently, under normal circumstances, chooses not to. I keep going back and forth on this one, hoping I haven't irreversibly messed up my marriage.