Thats a whole other issue.. He gets very jealous. Says i am married so i should be home.. He gets mad at me most times.. Especially if i get home late.. I really dont care what he thinks but i am tired of arguing about it or "getting in trouble" for it.. He told me once in the middle of an argument that he is a grown man and if he wants to drink he will drink, my response was i am a griwn woman.. Seems like a one way road and i am numb.. You know, he has a goid job and the drinking doesnt affect his work at all.. He can be such a douche canoe and no mattet how hard i try to get my point across it doesnt work...