Al-anon will welcome you with open arms.
If you had cancer and he hated you for seeking treatment for it, would that make sense to you?
You are a strong, loving woman wanting the best for your family. You want Brian to seek treatment for his problem. If your daughter needed treatment, you would NOT hesitate to get it for her. You, my friend, are just as important.
Missouri Al-anon
(((((((((Praying for Brian)))))))))