My husband got out of rehab a week ago. I decided about 2 weeks in I was not ready for him to be home. The rehab helped him find a sober living facility in town. He is visiting the kids daily after I get home from work.
I'm exhausted and desperate for a daily life partner. But he can't be that right now and I'm learning to rely on myself for much and outsource the rest. Got a great nanny and a cleaning service. It's expensive but frankly cheaper than funding his drug habit, which I was unwittingly doing for years.
My anger is still high and I know he can't fulfill my needs and wants in a partner now. I just want him to get his feet under him, get a job, and be a good dad. The marriage is on hold. I'm angry about it but trying to just let be.