My father (nearly 80) & I had 2 drinks only, no one else was drinking.
I would normally only have 1 but it was Easter & the place was packed & we had to wait a long time for a meal, it was a special occasion so I had 2.
Also the last time I tried to talk about it I got "well I was there wasn't I".
He tries to sweep it under the carpet & not address it.
Not good enough.