I am married but I found out quite awhile ago that a bar served absolutely no purpose in my life. None. Was in one Saturday night for a benefit (friend with cancer), was there 20 minutes and out the door.
I met my wife through work but it was crazy, I am Minnesota, she was in LA and she was born and raised in Peru. When its meant to be I guess it just happens. Probably not the answer you were looking for but I thought I'd share. Someone will come along when you least expect it.