Nicely done, AO. I also stopped drinking to give a big F.U. to addiction and to my horrible parents. Wanted to stop the cycle of total dysfunction. I wanted to find happiness and calm.
Camp is a great idea Cow. I wish she'd take you up on it. My life changed at age 15 and 16 when I went on two separate camping trips out West as part of a high school class.
She could use some perspective, and the only way to get that is to get outside of the dysfunction for a while and look back in.