carlotta.... assuming i dont buy it, how would he just go get it? he has no job/money. he would take my card costing me more money bc he doesnt price check for the best deal. do i give him an allowance? if so do i set it so he cant possibly afford the amount he drinks now? how do i set an amount? or do i just make him go cold turkey by not providing the money? and risk medical issues from the withdrawals??? he really has no way to get it if i cut off the cash. well his 1 friend who is over an hour away, but that wouldnt be a daily thing like it is now.