No you are absolutely right & I've already put most of that into action. It just sucks, because I KNOW he's not a bad person. But it astonishes me (even though it shouldn't) that he truly seems to believe his own BS & excuses to the point that he was genuinely distraught that I threw his stuff out on the yard & told him to leave. He even told me he would take a UA then & there-apparently (supposedly) you can buy home ones at the store??
Anyway. I don't know. Everything sucks right now except my son & I am tired, sad, scared & lonely. That's all. I'll live.