Please tell me you recognize you are too logical and too smart to fall for this right? The other enablers want you to magically be able to do what they could not and therefore they are going to attempt to relieve themselves of their own guilt in not being able to help AH and try to firmly plant it on your shoulders instead. It's passing the buck only they don't realize the only person responsible for AH and his poor choices is him. Don't acknowledge it. If they confront you directly in person, your only statement is "it's not up for discussion". Your trucking along just fine without their "friendly" advice.