All of this of course bears in mind that even though one files divorce paperwork, that doesn't mean one must go through all the steps to finalize. In our case, AH HAS made huge strides with treatment etc, but somehow there always seems to be something under the surface.
And, waiting, exactly-what kind of marriage is it, when one person is checked out, high, faking their way through, or just not even there?? I hear ya.
Thanks for the tips, every one
I continue to hope the best for AH through all this & a part of me not-so-secretly wishes for the day that he shows up on our doorstep clean, sober, employed & ready to be a Real Boy.
If wishes were horses, right?