Four questions I WILL ask anyone of interest or of whom I may have feelings for:
1) Do you have a record?
2) How long have you been with the same job?
3) How often do you drink and how much?
4) Have you ever drank and drove?
(Kinda reminds me of the CarFax commercial
)
I will also look at the person's surroundings and try to see what is important to that person, ie...moving onward and upward or staying put.
I think it's normal to wonder. I mean, why would you want to put yourself BACK into that situation?