Grits i could hardly finish your post after reading that you had called her!!! I just wanted to rush to the end to see what happened/if you were ok.
Isn't it crazy how all the effort we put into laying brick after brick into the wall of NC, putting day after day behind us of being NC, all it takes is pressing one button!
Are you ruminating about why she hasnt called back, in spite of yourself? I admit I did, in a similar situation not long ago.
Hugs, lady!!!! You're so strong!