Hi Liverpool, Welcome I myself just joined today. I am sorry you are going through this. I wanted to suggest you that are Al Anon phone bridge meetings and they are held everyday. All, you have ti do is call on the conference line and enter your code. You can find the telephone number,on,google. Those meetinga are also very good. I myself like face to face interaction and try to attend the meetings in person but have been staying with my parents so haven't been,able to attend my regular meetings. So, I tried the phone meetings and they are goid too. Good luck to you and maybe the doctor can get through to your husband.