Not sure which others these are but if those are folks in Al Anon or folks who also have an alcoholic spouse it is actually good for him.
Alcoholism is a family matter, it affects our loved ones too >just check out the F&F forum to get an idea of how much of an impact it has<
I am also a F&F member and I have loved and lived with an active alcoholic. It was hell.
The best thing you can do right now is keep up with you recovery and stay sober. The rest will ultimately fall into place one way or another.
Keep up with the good work Alynn. When he is ready to open up to you, he will.