Lightseeker, it is always wonderful to see an old friend and I am so happy that your life is happy today. Congratulations on the doctorate, that is a huge accomplishment!!
How could your boys be in college? It was only yesterday that they were young fellas...time flies far too quickly.
We can never go back and change our pasts, but we can learn from them and take those lessons with us as we find a happier, healthy life in days to come.
Hug to you...and to your boys.