Don't get too hung upon on the quantity of meetings. Meetings are great as far as they go but they are not the program. True that there are people who get sober on meetings alone, but what happens to them when they can't get to meetings?
The important stuf is done away from meetings. Step work, one to one time with a sponsor, learning to practice these principles in all our affairs which includes the twenty three hour s each day that we are not at meetings.
I know it looks like it will take a long time but in my experience, when we get our heads down and get on with it, God has a way of making it happen in the most surprising ways. And maybe the greatest feeling of all, even if all is not yet fixed, is to know inside that at long last we are on the right track.