Originally Posted by
NikTes 
Sigh. How did you respond to him? Or are you still processing? Hang in there. I have faith in you.
Processing.
On one hand I think 'Ugh! Im done forever!" and on the other hand I think "He's right, things just need to be different next time" Which I know doesn't work, I've frickin tried it so many times.
It's so hard because he is my best friend, husband, companion, partner, I trust him with my life, my childrens' lives, he is the head of the household, the wise one, the one everyone looks up to. He has been right with so many things in my life that without fail, he has always made the right decisions when I was floundering and unsure.
Then there is this! Is this the one thing he is wrong about? I find it very, very hard to go directly against his thinking in this.