This has been an interesting thread to read because I am equally intrigued how dual-drinking couples navigate the waters in early sobriety when one commits and one does not. I wholeheartedly agree with the earlier posts that it is an individual choice which deserves respect ... whether that means supporting your alcoholic partner or forgiving your normal drinking partner when they want to consume in a responsible manner. I think it's a HUGE barometer on the health and maturity of the relationship if some sort of compromise can be negotiated. I am currently testing this theory ... it is difficult but we are managing one day at a time.