I think we both have problems but as of now I'm the only one admitting anything. My partner drinks more than I do, or did, and justifies it bc "it's a work happy hour" or "i had a long week". I have asked that no alcohol come into the house and that caused a huge argument bc "I can't expect everyone else to change around me BC its not fair to them". I agree to a point but I'm cutting out the friends that don't support my recovery so what makes this different? I can't even talk to them at this point bc it just turns into an argument and I'm emotionally drained.