Originally Posted by soverylost

Yes and after too.
I know hes stressed. But seriously? Can he not just tell me? Can he not respect me enough?
This is getting old. For a whole half hour, he just kept getting more and more angry before he even told me what the problem was. And it was stupid, because it was something that I had forgotten and once he said I i remembered and agreed. So then I ask, why didn't you just say it earlier? Holy hell you'd think i asked for the world! I don't respect him, i don't listen to him, i don't support him...and after I spent a half hour asking him why he was frustrated and upset,and then agreeing with what he said (that i had forgotten about)!

Yes he's been acting like this a lot lately. The counsellor calls it dry drunk,and H needs to step up and do some work on himself. Like Blue said, now the inner work on why the addiction started needs to take place, and it's not. And that's why his old patterns keep coming up and will keep coming up.

So now I'm in Ds's room, Ds is sleeping and I'm debating. Do i want to even sleep in our room tonight? I have problems sleeping beside someone who acts like they hate me