Hey there Thot! I read your opening post and jumped to the pad...then...I read some more and jumped to reply and then I read some more and here we are. Minus the JV basketball team size family, EVERY word and feeling you expressed describes most of my FOO warfare to a T. You are not alone and for the record, apologize for nothing, ever. I see exceptional work being done here. Identify it, extract it, correct it and move forward....just how I'm doing it I mean. Sorry, I'm probably responding to myself here since your post(s) hit home. I think you are attacking this issue in a very positive and effective way. A way I personally learned in Acoa and through MY recovery as it relates to MY very FFOO.
Keep going, I'd like to respond to a couple points you've raised above, I'll try and make it short but.....great points of discussion (I can't help it) thanks for raising all of them.
OGK
