Thanks guys!!
They never have a book for raising a child, ha!! I just feel I missed a lot when I did drink, and I was lacking on dealing with my teenager either her actions or someone who was revoking things. I just need to control what I can do on my side and educate my daughter to do things that isn't going to hurt in the long terms.
I just wish we would been notice with all this problem in advance then them taking control of the situation. Its my job to make daughter understand what could happen or maybe they could have sat down and talk to her how this works then keeping her out of the loop.
If I was a principle, I would have talk to her first explain and then take her I-pad away. If they want to teach her something, they need to tell why they did it.