Your therapist does not sound very compassionate. I guess she may have a different approach of helping you? I currently go to therapy and she has never demanded that I go to AA. I have tried AA in the past and I felt that personally it wasn't for me. My therapist understood that and said AA is not for everyone. She provided me with other coping skills and resources for my sobriety and other issues. In my opinion that is what a therapist should do. Help guide you through this crazy journey and transition rather than demand you take one path and only this one path.