Originally Posted by
rougelily 
I can definitely stand on my own two feet. I own my home, I have a nice car I pay for, I pay all my own bills. I don't NEED him around, I WANT him around, but I think its coming around that if he can't do what needs to be done that might change. .
THIS is WONDERFUL! A goofy little phrase so full of truth that really stuck out in my mind and I kept repeating to myself was, "If nothing changes nothing changes." It is apparent he isn't going to change, but you can. Hugs!