Originally Posted by
Jeni26 
It would be so much easier to go back to drinking with him.
Nonsense. I'm really sad to see your AV so active again.
I seem to recall he wasn't as reluctant as you're painting him now Jeni.
I think your guilt is misplaced, and it's doing nothing but feeding your AV.
If you were powerful enough to make him drink, you'd be powerful enough to make him stop....
That's obviously not the case.
Many people here deak with drinking spouses - it's challenge certainly but it's not a deal breaker Jen - you can do this.
Build that support network and use it. Your husband is not a stupid manV- I hope it's not too long before he remembers why he quit
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