Hey Zoe,when in doubt,i go somewhere,s for quiet,and pray/meditate.Sometimes i say the Serenity prayer.God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change,courage to change the things i can,and wisdom to know the difference.Thy will,not mine be done.When making any decisions,i pray first.If im not clear,i talk to others,and pray again.I sometimes take pen in hand,and just write,with no intentions.No pushing within myself any outcomes,wants,or, desires.Just writting what comes to my mind openly.No list of pros/cons.Just writting..Being open.Just write whatever comes in my mind.Then pray again.My answers come in Gods time not mine.
Thanks for letting me share,
God Bless,you and your family.