Curmudgeon, Electrical Engineer, Guitar God Wannabe
Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: Where the mighty arms of Atlas hold the heavens from the Earth
Posts: 3,403
Karrets...
One of the running themes here at FFSA is that decisions have consequences, both for the addict and for those who love them.
Your AH's decisions bounced him in jail. That the price he pays.
Your decisions regarding your AH have landed you where you currently are. And that's the price you pay.
I say this not to be cruel, or unsupportive. You know me well enough at this point to know that I do support you and care about what happens to you. But at some point, Karrets, you have to pay attention to what you know to be true about your AH. Because you're not paying attention.
It's like someone that picks up a downed power line who thinks they won't get electrocuted. But they pick it up, and get zapped. Over, and over, and over. That's you, Karrets. Your AH is the downed power line. You continue to pick it up. You continue to get zapped.
It is entirely in your power, and I mean 100% in your power, to not pick up that power line. So the question you need to ask yourself is what do you have to do to not pick it up?
No one can answer that for you, Karrets. Only you can answer that.
Keep us posted.