I know that I need boundaries but didn't know I was dealing with both kids but I guess I really did. Still think second boy thinks he is helping his older brother in some way. He doesn't know his brother was using every day. Woke up and started using. I have been trying to teach about helping his brother He was mad when he relapsed. Oh god I'm rambling about crap. Crap that I am here. Crap that I don't know what to do. I'm a mom. Why don't I now what to do. I'm suppose to know