Originally Posted by
Fandy 
I think that women are a LOT smarter than you are giving them credit for.
We go to movies for entertainment and enjoyment, it's not *dangerous*. What is "hot" for some is not for others....I think that believing women are that shallow is discrediting, along with the younger women...the women who are so concerned about their daughters would be surprised if they actually got an honest answer from them, but they do not want to discuss with the mommies anymore than you or I want to discuss the sexual aspect with your 80- year old mamas.
it's a sexual fantasy, nothing more....(and most doctors will tell you, it's a common theme) and this is NOTHING new. I do remember watching the Story of O which was extremely abusive BDSM and although that is nothing I practice, it *enhanced* the bedroom for a bit....
whatever you practice, I hope you all respect yourselves.
So nice to see/hear a voice of reason!
There is nothing new about this story except that it isn't written as eloquently as most of the porn I've seen.
You're either "into" BDSM, or you're not. This film will do nothing to change your sexual preferences. Also, there are just as many guys who enjoy being dominated. BDSM practitioners are respectful of each other, have limitations, "safe" words, etc.
While the book is not my cup of tea, I don't know any fifty-something year old ladies who haven't read it- they all still seem okay to me!