Dave,
something to consider is this: no matter which way you go about it, and no matter how much help you find, ultimately you will need to be accountable to yourself.
i could, for example, say sure, i'm happy to talk with you every day a dozen times, and you can be accountable to me.
sounds bizarre, really.
but the point is: if you didn't show up, there's nothing i could do to "hold" you accountable.
there's nothing i could "make" you do.
because, in fact, you are accountable to you.