LOL - I think you and your husband are the twins to me and Mike. I used to be worried about money all the time, HE always said "spend it, I can make more." Now, HE'S always worring about money, and I'm always telling him that things will work out, something will happen to make it possible. And I know what you mean about not liking it. I wonder what is more stressful, worrying about money, or worrying about the PERSON worrying about money.
Maybe we should dump them off somewhere they can worry about money together, and you and I can go shopping.