Hey Kari,
Im sorry I missed your thread until just now. Im sorry about you son, but I think its very important not to neglect other parts of your life.
I like the bingo game. My husband and I have been slowly getting out more again and trying different places to eat. Oddly one of our most relaxing favorites is ihop! Trying different types of take out can be nice too, and a movie at home.
Your post is timely, because Ive been encouraging all the married ladies on our thread to have a "date night" They are important!
My parents set a good example for me, they do all kinds of stuff together. From taking day trips, signing up for different kinds of classes, book clubs, going out with friends. My mom taught me the joys of the flea market and we have such a fun time looking, and getting creative with our finds.
Break open your creativity!