This was great! Just the other day I was saying to a friend how my XAB and his family always demonized his ex wife. I was so sure they were right. Now as I think on it and have actually run into people who know her, I see Normal girl who was driven bat crap crazy living with this lying cheating junkie and snapped. His brother is an active A with an ex wife who is also supposed to be so mean. Apparently both of these ex wives turned on his mother at some point going from loving daughter in laws to women who wouldn't give her the time of day. Maybe because they realized at some point that they were dealing with the chief enabler equally if not more sick than her sons. I want to contact his ex wife on FB, but it would serve no purpose and I have no wish to drag her back into bad memories. Time to keep moving forward.