I was better than all those crazy ex-girlfriends of his. All he needed was the right girl. Well now, I am also a crazy ex-girlfriend
Great insight. And you and me both, babe. You and me both.
I heard the same stories from AXH: His earlier girlfriends were all crazy. I've decided that here's how it works: You know how they say look at how a guy treats his mom, and then realize that he'll treat you the same way? Well, I say look at how he speaks about his exes, and if they're ALL crazy horrible people (in his story), that's a HUGE red flag.
I realize that comes across as hypocritical, given what I've said about AXH -- but that's ONE person. I have great respect for most of the guys I dated before meeting him -- and the truth in most relationships was, it just didn't work out but they're good people. (Albeit some with addiction issues.)