I like that proverb...makes sense...my ex is married and his wife just had a baby so his hands are full right now...he hates my husband and would probably be happy if I left him...just don't want him to use that against me and try to take me to court for our boys...I guess I just have to pray to my HP and know that He will take care of me...I have to do what is right for my boys...my youngest son last night asked me about our apartment (we lived in an apartment for a few months while the custody case took place). He said he loves his step brothers and his step dad but he really liked the apartment because it was nice...wow, I started to cry...