Originally Posted by
Angelscry 
What do I do now? Do I tell them is is a A or do I just ignore this email?
Don't think it to be best to ignore the e-mail.
But -- (you may be in the need of wise professional counseling) at this time.
Their goal would or should be to keep your best interest in mind -- let them guide you.
Your husbands work place may offer counseling for you ?
If so take them up on that -- also shows that you are trying and willing on your end.
Before acting -- we need to think carefully at this time.
MM