Hi Jamie,
I agree with everything said above. Please don't waste decades of your life or risk total disaster before getting around to to quitting. Even in the unlikely event you mellow with age and stop getting wasted every time you drink, you will still be dominated by this evil addiction which will weaken you physically and mentally and cause you to greatly underachieve in life. I had a near death OD experience at 23 and I still didn't quit until 20 years later. Don't waste a big chunk of your life like I did. And from what you are saying, it sounds like things could get worse over time.
But the good news is that by simply retraining your thinking and giving up one class of beverage you could eliminate most of the problems in your life and return to total health. Go for it now! Please don't wait until your body is broken and your mind is scarred.