Thank you. Yes I do have a job, which he feels is a waste of time HA. I make a fraction of what he does. But I can start stashing it. I am salaried and paid monthly which sucks lol. I am also a professional photographer, I have recently put that aside, but when I was taking it seriously and not letting him sabotage that, I was making just as much as him. I need to start my business back up. I miss it. But it came to a point that I was self-sabotaging my art due to the obstacles he provided.
And you are right, I feel so powerless and let down from my attempt at controlling this situation.
Hugs to you as well